So I promised that I would update everyone on how the feeding is going from time to time
It’s been an up and down journey to say the least.
My last feeding post click HERE to read it.
As a brief recap in December we were taking 15-20ml a feed by bottle and the rest through the tube.
We slowly managed to get this to pick up but in January/February Oliver decided that he didn’t want to take any feed at all anymore, he’d gone from taking 70ml a feed to next to nothing. He would just chew on the teat and that was it.
It felt like we were going backwards
Backwards, to anyone, is not a way you really want to go. Not when we’d gone from 15/20ml to 70ml a feed. It was the complete opposite direction to what we were aiming for and when you’ve been on such a high of steady progress it brings you back down with a complete crash.
We had to start over.
Back to 20ml again
So off we went on our merry little journey again. Now if you follow my Instagram you will see how I post things and how quickly all of a sudden Oliver seems to have realised that he’s actually a baby that can function. He’s started lifting his head more, the arms and legs are all over the shop and I’ve never come across a baby that can be so easy going and smiley, yet so serious in the same breath.
Anyone that’s had the chance to spend time with him in the past month and a half knows the side eye that he gives as if to say ‘who even are you?’ But can also tell you that two minutes later he’s smiling and flirting away and eventually hiccuping from laughing. A laugh that can make even the bleakest and difficultest moments melt away into the background
So now for the news that people are looking for….
Oliver’s feeds have now been capped, he’s not to have his feeds uppped, so we’re set at 180mls five times a day. (To do with weight but that’s for another post) To those of you that don’t work in MLS that’s 6oz. So we’ve finally had time to catch up without goal posts constantly moving. We are now taking a steady 120mls for at least three feeds a day (morning and late feeds are hit and miss) so that’s just over 4oz a feed.
That’s 2/3 of his feed
I feel as though feeding has just clicked. I don’t feed with two bottles anymore, that’s mixing the feed in a big bottle and transferring it to a small bottle so he isn’t overwhelmed and then top up as we go along, now all one big bottle for a feed. We still have to watch his breathing as he can quite quickly become overwhelmed and get all out of sync but we are getting there! Feeds still take an incredibly long time compared to other babies his age but the fact that we are starting to become less dependent on the tube is a win in our eyes.
For the rubbish few weeks we’ve had for cancelled appointments (endocrine apppintment being cancelled, weaning appointment with Salt cancelled) being spoken to about doing things with tube incorrectly (through no fault of our own just incorrect advice) we’ve had this absolute little gem keeping us going and it just keeps getting better and better. Hopefully by the summer we will be tube free….but I can’t get to excited or push too hard as we don’t want to back track like earlier in the year.
So for those of you that see me and see that at times I feel like everything’s slowing down and we aren’t getting where we want to be with other teams….give me a gentle reminder that we’re making progress in other areas and progress in one area is better than none.
….Oliver hasn’t quite grasped the idea of a jumperoo….not even the leg part we understand that. He won’t even touch the toys 😂 one step at a time and all that